Thursday, December 31st, 2009 - Day 13
Mommy is sad because Chris went back to work today. He will be off tomorrow, but today and starting Monday, it will be just me and baby. I loved having Chris's help with Tia and being able to snooze here and there. I know Tia and I will get into a routine soon enough and the weeks will fly by. I can't believe 3 weeks of maternity leave have already gone by. Wow!
This is Tia's first New Year's Eve and we will be spending it at home. I can't remember the last time I stayed home for New Year's but I'm looking forward to it. I think Chris is too. I do have a BFF stopping by later today and she is bringing me some treats so I can celebrate with a dirty martini and possibly a glass of wine. Mmmmm
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Wednesday, December 30, 2009
Her Umbilical Cord is Gone
Wednesday, December 30th, 2009 - Day 12
Today, her umbilical cord fell off and we are happy because it just did not look like it was fun to have that attached. Now I wonder if she is going to have an inny or an outie. It is so hard to tell.
Poor Tia has the same ritual after feeding. She does two sneezes and then she has the hiccups that last about 20 minutes. Boy does she hate them because she makes these cute sounds. Chris calls the sounds the Velociraptor because she makes clicking and uh-ing noises. We feel so bad for her.
She also has a clogged tear duct in her left eye. She gets eye boogies all the time and although we clean them out, it seems like a constant problem. I hope that goes away, although I've heard it is a common thing among new babies.
She is perfect otherwise and is doing great. She's doing better at sleeping at night but she needs to be held to fall asleep. She can sure tell when she is not getting the human contact. She's so spoiled!
Today, her umbilical cord fell off and we are happy because it just did not look like it was fun to have that attached. Now I wonder if she is going to have an inny or an outie. It is so hard to tell.
Poor Tia has the same ritual after feeding. She does two sneezes and then she has the hiccups that last about 20 minutes. Boy does she hate them because she makes these cute sounds. Chris calls the sounds the Velociraptor because she makes clicking and uh-ing noises. We feel so bad for her.
She also has a clogged tear duct in her left eye. She gets eye boogies all the time and although we clean them out, it seems like a constant problem. I hope that goes away, although I've heard it is a common thing among new babies.
She is perfect otherwise and is doing great. She's doing better at sleeping at night but she needs to be held to fall asleep. She can sure tell when she is not getting the human contact. She's so spoiled!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
The Cutest Chuckle & Smiles
Tuesday, December 29th, 2009 - Day 11
Of course, she is too young to give us a smile or laugh BUT we get lucky every time she falls asleep. When she starts to doze off she has the cutest facial expressions and the best is when she smiles. There are different forms of smiles and it is just amazing to see. Every few days there is the cutest chuckle too. I've seen it twice and Chris has seen it a couple times too. We love it...it is like a 'uh-hee-uh-hee' belly laugh. So adorable.
My mom was telling me how in Thailand they believe the facial expressions babies have when falling asleep are Angels talking/playing with them. The babies will smile when playing and they give that frown-like face when the babies do something bad, the Angels will bopp them on the head. It was a cute story and now I imagine the Angels every time I watch her fall asleep.
In fact, right now she is sleeping and it looks like she has a cute little smile on her face. So cute!
Of course, she is too young to give us a smile or laugh BUT we get lucky every time she falls asleep. When she starts to doze off she has the cutest facial expressions and the best is when she smiles. There are different forms of smiles and it is just amazing to see. Every few days there is the cutest chuckle too. I've seen it twice and Chris has seen it a couple times too. We love it...it is like a 'uh-hee-uh-hee' belly laugh. So adorable.
My mom was telling me how in Thailand they believe the facial expressions babies have when falling asleep are Angels talking/playing with them. The babies will smile when playing and they give that frown-like face when the babies do something bad, the Angels will bopp them on the head. It was a cute story and now I imagine the Angels every time I watch her fall asleep.
In fact, right now she is sleeping and it looks like she has a cute little smile on her face. So cute!
Monday, December 28, 2009
She's all Clean
Monday, December 28th, 2009 - Day 10
We decided to give Tia her first full body sponge bath today and boy did she not like the cold much. Chris and I did our best to keep her calm while we washed her body, washed her hair, and lotioned her up. Once we were done and we put her in some warm clothes and wrapped her up in a blanket, she was out for the count. She is still sleeping all day and awake all night, but hopefully we'll get that changed soon. We've been using all the tips we've received and it seems like we are making a tiny bit of progress day by day. We'll get there. She is just so darn cute!
We decided to give Tia her first full body sponge bath today and boy did she not like the cold much. Chris and I did our best to keep her calm while we washed her body, washed her hair, and lotioned her up. Once we were done and we put her in some warm clothes and wrapped her up in a blanket, she was out for the count. She is still sleeping all day and awake all night, but hopefully we'll get that changed soon. We've been using all the tips we've received and it seems like we are making a tiny bit of progress day by day. We'll get there. She is just so darn cute!
Sunday, December 27, 2009
Party at My Crib
Sunday, December 27th, 2009 - Day 9
Tia had her first friend over today. Her friend is 5 weeks older than Tia but they already look like best buds. Of course, us moms had to do a photoshoot with them. I was always the bad influence with tequila shots and partying, so it was cute that we made Tia out to be the bad influence in these pictures. Although, we all know that these little girls will not even know what drinking is until they are hopefully 21, but we do hope they are best buds just like us moms are. Cute, nonetheless.
Saturday, December 26, 2009
One Week Old
Saturday, December 26th, 2009 - Day 8
Tia is officially one week old today and the week seems to have gone by so quickly. Although, some of those long nights I thought would never end. Overall, it has been great getting to know our little girl. She is just amazing in every way. Things that make me smile are the little smiles she gets as she is falling asleep and the little wimpering noises she makes when she is dreaming. I can just look at her for hours on end and just cherish every moment. The things that have been hard for me this week are how my boobs feel - ouch-eeee-wowa! I liked one of the comments that I will 'toughen' them up and I'm slowly but surely getting them tough enough for the every 3 hour pain they go through. I've been solely pumping because we are breaking Tia of the habit of using me as a human pacifier after she's been fed. Doc says that we have to break that habit early or she'll need me every time she goes to sleep. That is part of the reason my boobs are taking a beating. So the past 3 days, I've been pumping and it has been working out great. I'm definitely getting used to it, but it hasn't been easy. The other things that come to mind are the discomfort down below as my uterus is slowly getting back to its original size.
But Tia is doing great. She has her nights and days mixed up so she sleeps all day and does not want to go to bed all night. We are working on getting her switched but unfortunately it is no easy task. I know it will work out SOON! We are taking advantage when we can to sleep when she sleeps during the day, but can be hard with pumping, daily to-dos and visitors. But all worth it. Christmas was actually fun because we didn't have to leave our house, yet we got to see almost half of our family. My mom came over every day and brought us food, Chris's mom and brothers and sisters came over for a fun time, my brother his wife and two little girls came and stayed with us for a couple days too. My dad and stepmom came over on Christmas too. Chris's dad and stepmom will be coming by today. So it was nice to have things at our house (but not having to cook anything ;)
Tia made out like a bandit with gifts. She is already spoiled and doesn't even know it yet. She got a lot of fun toys, ornaments, clothes, etc. I was excited because I was able to have a glass of wine on Christmas. Boy did it taste good. Since I had pumped enough to last all day, I was able to have a glass and then let it get out of my system before pumping again. I bought the Alcohol/Milk screen from Wal-greens that tell you if your milk is clear for pumping sans alcohol.
Chris has been an amazing daddy this week - he is just such a natural. I'm lucky that he wants to help me with diapers, bottle feeding and if I need anything here or there. He has been a great help and I'm going to be sad when he goes back to work after this week. Then it will be just me and Tia on our own. I'm sure it will be an adventure. I know that the next 10 weeks are going to fly by for me and then I'll be back to work so I'm going to take advantage of these early days while I can. I know one of my purposes in life was to be a mom and I'm finally able to provide for another human being in a way like no other. I pray every night that our family is watched from above!
Tia is officially one week old today and the week seems to have gone by so quickly. Although, some of those long nights I thought would never end. Overall, it has been great getting to know our little girl. She is just amazing in every way. Things that make me smile are the little smiles she gets as she is falling asleep and the little wimpering noises she makes when she is dreaming. I can just look at her for hours on end and just cherish every moment. The things that have been hard for me this week are how my boobs feel - ouch-eeee-wowa! I liked one of the comments that I will 'toughen' them up and I'm slowly but surely getting them tough enough for the every 3 hour pain they go through. I've been solely pumping because we are breaking Tia of the habit of using me as a human pacifier after she's been fed. Doc says that we have to break that habit early or she'll need me every time she goes to sleep. That is part of the reason my boobs are taking a beating. So the past 3 days, I've been pumping and it has been working out great. I'm definitely getting used to it, but it hasn't been easy. The other things that come to mind are the discomfort down below as my uterus is slowly getting back to its original size.
But Tia is doing great. She has her nights and days mixed up so she sleeps all day and does not want to go to bed all night. We are working on getting her switched but unfortunately it is no easy task. I know it will work out SOON! We are taking advantage when we can to sleep when she sleeps during the day, but can be hard with pumping, daily to-dos and visitors. But all worth it. Christmas was actually fun because we didn't have to leave our house, yet we got to see almost half of our family. My mom came over every day and brought us food, Chris's mom and brothers and sisters came over for a fun time, my brother his wife and two little girls came and stayed with us for a couple days too. My dad and stepmom came over on Christmas too. Chris's dad and stepmom will be coming by today. So it was nice to have things at our house (but not having to cook anything ;)
Tia made out like a bandit with gifts. She is already spoiled and doesn't even know it yet. She got a lot of fun toys, ornaments, clothes, etc. I was excited because I was able to have a glass of wine on Christmas. Boy did it taste good. Since I had pumped enough to last all day, I was able to have a glass and then let it get out of my system before pumping again. I bought the Alcohol/Milk screen from Wal-greens that tell you if your milk is clear for pumping sans alcohol.
Chris has been an amazing daddy this week - he is just such a natural. I'm lucky that he wants to help me with diapers, bottle feeding and if I need anything here or there. He has been a great help and I'm going to be sad when he goes back to work after this week. Then it will be just me and Tia on our own. I'm sure it will be an adventure. I know that the next 10 weeks are going to fly by for me and then I'll be back to work so I'm going to take advantage of these early days while I can. I know one of my purposes in life was to be a mom and I'm finally able to provide for another human being in a way like no other. I pray every night that our family is watched from above!
Friday, December 25, 2009
Tia's First Christmas
Friday, December 25th, 2009 - Day 7
We were good all year,
in hopes our request would come true.
That we’d receive the present we asked for,
something all tiny, precious, and new.
Santa must have thought we were deserving,
to bless us with this amazing and special thing.
The week of Christmas finally has arrived,
and we were excited with what Santa did bring.
A perfect little princess,
and bundle of joy so sweet.
A little daughter to call Angel,
that we could not wait to meet.
Her name is Tia McKenzie,
December 19th is her birth date.
She weighs 6 lbs 8 ozs is 19 inches long,
she’s a 100% perfect in every way.
We are so excited about this blessing,
from the clouds of heaven above.
We will love her, cherish her and protect her,
for all of her many days to come.
Wishing you and yours a holiday season full of joy & happiness.
We hope you get all that you wished for Christmas too!
All of our love,
Chris, Angie & Tia Norris
We were good all year,
in hopes our request would come true.
That we’d receive the present we asked for,
something all tiny, precious, and new.
Santa must have thought we were deserving,
to bless us with this amazing and special thing.
The week of Christmas finally has arrived,
and we were excited with what Santa did bring.
A perfect little princess,
and bundle of joy so sweet.
A little daughter to call Angel,
that we could not wait to meet.
Her name is Tia McKenzie,
December 19th is her birth date.
She weighs 6 lbs 8 ozs is 19 inches long,
she’s a 100% perfect in every way.
We are so excited about this blessing,
from the clouds of heaven above.
We will love her, cherish her and protect her,
for all of her many days to come.
Wishing you and yours a holiday season full of joy & happiness.
We hope you get all that you wished for Christmas too!
All of our love,
Chris, Angie & Tia Norris
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Tia's First Doctor's Appointment
Thursday, December 24th, 2009 - Day 6
Our little overachiever did great today at her first doctor's appointment. After the first few days, babies lose some of their weight. Tia was born 6 lbs 8 ozs and when we left the hospital, she weighed 6 lbs 1 oz. Today, she weighed in at 6 lbs and 10.5 ozs. Our doc was very pleased. Tia also kicked the jaundice and no longer has to test for it nor does she have to sleep in the billy-bed all day long. Other things that were gleaming were her demeanor and color. The doc said that we are both doing a great job so far and she gave us lots of tips to the questions we've had. Because she is doing so great, we don't have to come back for a month. Great job Tia!
Our little overachiever did great today at her first doctor's appointment. After the first few days, babies lose some of their weight. Tia was born 6 lbs 8 ozs and when we left the hospital, she weighed 6 lbs 1 oz. Today, she weighed in at 6 lbs and 10.5 ozs. Our doc was very pleased. Tia also kicked the jaundice and no longer has to test for it nor does she have to sleep in the billy-bed all day long. Other things that were gleaming were her demeanor and color. The doc said that we are both doing a great job so far and she gave us lots of tips to the questions we've had. Because she is doing so great, we don't have to come back for a month. Great job Tia!
Wednesday, December 23, 2009
Breastfeeding & Pumping
Wednesday, December 23rd, 2009 - Day 5
In the hospital, about an hour after birth, I breastfed Tia for almost an hour. The lactation specialist gave her the big honors of being the best breast feeder out of all the newborns in the ward. Tia had no problem latching on and going to town. My theory is all of those hiccups she had made her swallowing and sucking capabilities more mature (doc said something to this effect). So for the next few days in the hospital, Tia would eat every 2 to 3 hours and she would stay latched on for 45 to 50 minutes at a time. This is great for her because she was getting the colostrum she needed, but after that ran out, I turned into a human pacifier and the 'nips' were starting to get very sore. By the time I got home on Monday and breastfeeding on my own - it was rather painful. Now there are a few reasons to this: (1) she wasn't always latching on properly, but she a tiny baby and it is a bit harder for her (2) soreness is very normal since our 'nips' have not gone through this sort of treatment before (at least mine haven't).
I will say that sitting in the glider chair with the boppy pilly across my lap and Tia laying close to me eating her meal is super sweet to experience. I can hug her, rub her hair, check out all of her features and watch her slowly fall asleep. It is amazing how special it is...BUT my 'nips' just take a beating when I am trying to get her latched on in the beginning.
I talked to another friend who recently had a baby and she said that she started pumping before she came home from the hospital (her baby was super early). So that made me feel better when I was wondering when I can start pumping and giving my 'nips' a break. I did all of my reading and research and although lactation specialist really want you to breastfeed early on as opposed to pumping - many places said that if your nips were sore to go ahead and try to pump to give things a change of pace from time to time. I will still breastfeed on a normal basis, but I'm going to take advantage of pumping while I can.
A good friend of mine was kind enough to give me her Medela electric double pump which I have heard is the best so I was all set to go with pumping. I was a bit scared, I'll admit and Chris was kind enough to wash everything for me and get it all prepared. He watched me as I turned the pump on low and tried it out on my right. As I turned it from low gradually higher, Chris cringed in pain. I also was a bit freaked at first - it just seemed weird and sort of hurt. But after a bit, it worked like a charm and is definitely going to do the job. And after I did one side for a small bit, it made it easier for Tia to latch on that next mealtime. Also, when I need a break from breast feeding, Chris will have a bottle he can supplement her meals with.
In the hospital, about an hour after birth, I breastfed Tia for almost an hour. The lactation specialist gave her the big honors of being the best breast feeder out of all the newborns in the ward. Tia had no problem latching on and going to town. My theory is all of those hiccups she had made her swallowing and sucking capabilities more mature (doc said something to this effect). So for the next few days in the hospital, Tia would eat every 2 to 3 hours and she would stay latched on for 45 to 50 minutes at a time. This is great for her because she was getting the colostrum she needed, but after that ran out, I turned into a human pacifier and the 'nips' were starting to get very sore. By the time I got home on Monday and breastfeeding on my own - it was rather painful. Now there are a few reasons to this: (1) she wasn't always latching on properly, but she a tiny baby and it is a bit harder for her (2) soreness is very normal since our 'nips' have not gone through this sort of treatment before (at least mine haven't).
I will say that sitting in the glider chair with the boppy pilly across my lap and Tia laying close to me eating her meal is super sweet to experience. I can hug her, rub her hair, check out all of her features and watch her slowly fall asleep. It is amazing how special it is...BUT my 'nips' just take a beating when I am trying to get her latched on in the beginning.
I talked to another friend who recently had a baby and she said that she started pumping before she came home from the hospital (her baby was super early). So that made me feel better when I was wondering when I can start pumping and giving my 'nips' a break. I did all of my reading and research and although lactation specialist really want you to breastfeed early on as opposed to pumping - many places said that if your nips were sore to go ahead and try to pump to give things a change of pace from time to time. I will still breastfeed on a normal basis, but I'm going to take advantage of pumping while I can.
A good friend of mine was kind enough to give me her Medela electric double pump which I have heard is the best so I was all set to go with pumping. I was a bit scared, I'll admit and Chris was kind enough to wash everything for me and get it all prepared. He watched me as I turned the pump on low and tried it out on my right. As I turned it from low gradually higher, Chris cringed in pain. I also was a bit freaked at first - it just seemed weird and sort of hurt. But after a bit, it worked like a charm and is definitely going to do the job. And after I did one side for a small bit, it made it easier for Tia to latch on that next mealtime. Also, when I need a break from breast feeding, Chris will have a bottle he can supplement her meals with.
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
First Night of Little Sleep
Tuesday, December 22nd, 2009 - Day 4
We definitely expected little sleep for a while, but the billy-bed that she has to sleep in made it far worse than in the hospital. She isn't swaddled up like she has been because on the billy-bed, she is in this pouch w/arms that is attached to this bed. There is so much room in there that she doesn't get that feeling like she is in the womb but rather is able for her arms/legs to flair around. She hated that bed and just did not want to be in there. We felt so bad for her and we wanted to get her out of there but for her best interest we had to force her to stay in there crying, fussy and upset. Also, all she has on is a diaper so although it is a bit more heated, it doesn't keep her as warm as she wants.
I got about 2 hours of sleep total and Chris got a bit more but we made it through our first night at home together. I can't wait until she is out of that thing so I can put her in some cute, warm sleepers and we can get her on a regular eating/sleeping/pooping routine.
We changed a zillion diapers which was to be expected and filled our diaper genie already. They weren't lying when they said we'd go through diapers faster than we can imagine. Chris has been the master diaper changer, which has been great. I think he is proud of his new trade and I love that he wants to help where/when he can. He got some advice from someone who said to change as many diapers as he could while he was home because it is bonding time with Tia. Although, I think Chris thinks she thinks he is the bad guy because he has to change her diaper, get her cleaned up and clean around her belly button - which entails a little bit of coldness from the wipes. But I sure love watching him with her - it is just so cute!
Our first big day went well, with all things considered, and she is doing better with her jaundice too. The nurse came out to the house and did a reading and her levels have dropped significantly. Even the pediatrician called and said she was blown away by the big change. I know Tia is our little over achiever! So by Thursday when we go into the pediatrician, she should be all good.
We definitely expected little sleep for a while, but the billy-bed that she has to sleep in made it far worse than in the hospital. She isn't swaddled up like she has been because on the billy-bed, she is in this pouch w/arms that is attached to this bed. There is so much room in there that she doesn't get that feeling like she is in the womb but rather is able for her arms/legs to flair around. She hated that bed and just did not want to be in there. We felt so bad for her and we wanted to get her out of there but for her best interest we had to force her to stay in there crying, fussy and upset. Also, all she has on is a diaper so although it is a bit more heated, it doesn't keep her as warm as she wants.
I got about 2 hours of sleep total and Chris got a bit more but we made it through our first night at home together. I can't wait until she is out of that thing so I can put her in some cute, warm sleepers and we can get her on a regular eating/sleeping/pooping routine.
We changed a zillion diapers which was to be expected and filled our diaper genie already. They weren't lying when they said we'd go through diapers faster than we can imagine. Chris has been the master diaper changer, which has been great. I think he is proud of his new trade and I love that he wants to help where/when he can. He got some advice from someone who said to change as many diapers as he could while he was home because it is bonding time with Tia. Although, I think Chris thinks she thinks he is the bad guy because he has to change her diaper, get her cleaned up and clean around her belly button - which entails a little bit of coldness from the wipes. But I sure love watching him with her - it is just so cute!
Our first big day went well, with all things considered, and she is doing better with her jaundice too. The nurse came out to the house and did a reading and her levels have dropped significantly. Even the pediatrician called and said she was blown away by the big change. I know Tia is our little over achiever! So by Thursday when we go into the pediatrician, she should be all good.
Monday, December 21, 2009
Our Sweet Tia has Jaundice
Monday, December 21st, 2009 - Day 3
It doesn't surprise us that our sweet Tia has jaundice. Both Chris and I had jaundice when we were born and with me being part Asian - it is more common for the brown babies. We are being sent home today with a billy bed so she can get a good tan, but cure her jaundice at the same time. We can bring her home but she will have to stay in her tanning bed all week until Thursday when we take her into the doc to see if she's cured. Unfortunately, visitors who come see her won't be able to hold her but they can look at her all they want. She is still the cutest thing in the world!
Leaving the hospital is a big change because at home we won't have all the nurses, doctors, call buttons, room service and the nursery BUT we are excited to get home and get our family started on the right foot. We have had a great experience at St. Lukes. I have nothing but good things to say about the whole experience.
It doesn't surprise us that our sweet Tia has jaundice. Both Chris and I had jaundice when we were born and with me being part Asian - it is more common for the brown babies. We are being sent home today with a billy bed so she can get a good tan, but cure her jaundice at the same time. We can bring her home but she will have to stay in her tanning bed all week until Thursday when we take her into the doc to see if she's cured. Unfortunately, visitors who come see her won't be able to hold her but they can look at her all they want. She is still the cutest thing in the world!
Leaving the hospital is a big change because at home we won't have all the nurses, doctors, call buttons, room service and the nursery BUT we are excited to get home and get our family started on the right foot. We have had a great experience at St. Lukes. I have nothing but good things to say about the whole experience.
Sunday, December 20, 2009
Tia's First Photoshoot
Sunday, December 20th, 2009 - Day 2
Written by Baby Daddy:
Here's Tia, just 1 day old and already starring in a photoshoot. She looks so darn cute in her little brown and pink polka-dot dress. St. Luke's uses Bella Baby Photography for their newborn baby pictures To view photos, go to http://www.bellababyphotography.com/login. The password is 1219tianorris. For an additional "tear-jerker," turn on your speakers for the soundtrack. Act fast, photos only available until 1/4/10.
Saturday, December 19, 2009
We Welcome Tia McKenzie Norris
Saturday, December 19th, 2009 - Day 1
She has finally arrived - Tia McKenzie Norris has been born. She arrived at 1:15am weighing in at 6 lbs 8 ozs and 19 inches long. Of course going into labor, I had no idea what to expect. All I knew is that the contractions I was feeling about 3:30pm yesterday were killer for me and I was in some major pain. They gave me the epidural about an hour or so into arriving at the hospital which was AWESOME! I didn't feel any contractions after that. I have never had an IV or even been to the hospital for anything so all the needles I'd soon would be facing were not ideal. But the IV wasn't too bad once they got it started and the epidural didn't hurt although the pain medicine that they gave to numb sure did hurt for a bit. The catheter didn't hurt at all. I was thinking this wasn't so bad after all. Our moms were both in the room with us up until they wanted me to start pushing. We watched TV and talked. I was 3 cm when I arrived at 50% effaced. By 6pm, I was 6 cm. Then by 10pm I was 8 cm dilated and 80% effaced and by midnight I was 10 cm dilated and 100% effaced and it was time to start pushing.
I guess I thought this part of labor would be a zillion nurses/doctors in the room with Chris is his sterile blue scrubs outfit. Actually, it was just Chris and the nurse having me push at every contraction. Pushing was really hard, but it felt like I was with my personal trainer and he was having me do more than my body can handle. It didn't hurt or anything like that, but the pressure felt like 'a big turd was on its way' (quoted by my friend Angela). I was cracking jokes all night and we just had fun with the entire process. About 45 minutes into pushing, I was thinking to myself 'I hope I don't have to push for hours like some women'. My doc arrived when she was about to crown and he said give me one big push and there she appeared. They were all telling me that I was really strong and if I wanted to go natural, I really could have BUT let me tell you - the epidural rocked! They were also saying that only having to push for an hour is rare too. I was happy. When it was all said and done with - it isn't as bad as some stories I have heard. To each delivery, a different story - so we'll see about my next time around. BUT the worst part of the entire thing for me were the contractions early on. I had been having contractions for a while and just last night I started feeling them in my sleep, but they didn't hurt - they were just annoying. But the contractions that started at 3:30ish were excruciating - tears on the corners of my eyes, me saying 'oh god' and just the feeling of seizure like cramps - ouch! Everything else wasn't so bad.
I was really happy Tia came on her own. We were set to be induced Monday morning at 8:00am, but having her come on her own was a shorter process and just one day before her due date. She is so precious and I just can't stop looking at her. She is a teeny weeny thing and to me, she looks like Chris. She is beautiful and I'm sooooo lucky to have her here now.
Friday, December 18, 2009
Tia's Almost Here!
Friday, December 18th, 2009 - Day 278
Written by Baby Daddy:
Angie had another appointment today which the doctor told her that we would plan on inducing Monday morning. On our way back, Angie wanted to do lunch at a hibachi grill....she was craving steak. First, we went to one (off Olive) that Angie had not been to in a long time. We showed up and they were closed (out of business or relocating). Then we went to Texas Roadhouse in Arnold and they were closed, but opening at 3:30p, so we finished some Christmas shopping. About 30 minutes later, we came back to Texas Roadhouse. As soon as we were seated, Angie has a contraction like no other. She was in major pain. I asked if she wanted to leave before we order, but she was determined to have steak (even if she was teared-up while eating it). She then has another contraction 4 minutes later, then another, then another, and so on. Right then our food comes out and I immediately get the check and some "to go" boxes. As soon as we got into the car, I called the doctor's office and they said to come in. After we arrive, they run some tests to check for false labor. Definitely not false, so here we are now waiting patiently for Tia to arrive. We can't wait!!!
Thursday, December 17, 2009
Another Day
Thursday, December 17th, 2009 - Day 277
I got all of our Christmas shopping done, had lunch at a new Thai restaurant with my mom and we got our house ready for guests after Tia is born. It was a pretty productive day to say the least. I felt different today with a lot more crampy feelings and a few times a little queasy, but overall I made it through the day. I really can't tell when I have contractions. I know they are there, but it has not been evident when I do have one. My doctor says that people who don't gain a lot of weight during their pregnancy feel every movement from the baby and so it is harder to know when it is a contraction or the baby moving. People who gain a lot more weight, don't feel every baby movement so when a contraction happens, it is easier to detect. But tonight, I started feeling a steadier crampiness and with that she gets all balled up, which is what my doc says is a contraction. I have a feeling it is going to be hard to sleep tonight. I think I have a feeling she is on her way but we'll get a true detection at our doctor's appointment tomorrow.
Chris is officially on paternity leave or at least that is what I am calling it. He is off from tomorrow until the end of the year to be with me and baby. So he'll join me at the doctor's appointment tomorrow which will be nice. Lori may be right in her coming in Saturday...I think time is coming soon!!
I got all of our Christmas shopping done, had lunch at a new Thai restaurant with my mom and we got our house ready for guests after Tia is born. It was a pretty productive day to say the least. I felt different today with a lot more crampy feelings and a few times a little queasy, but overall I made it through the day. I really can't tell when I have contractions. I know they are there, but it has not been evident when I do have one. My doctor says that people who don't gain a lot of weight during their pregnancy feel every movement from the baby and so it is harder to know when it is a contraction or the baby moving. People who gain a lot more weight, don't feel every baby movement so when a contraction happens, it is easier to detect. But tonight, I started feeling a steadier crampiness and with that she gets all balled up, which is what my doc says is a contraction. I have a feeling it is going to be hard to sleep tonight. I think I have a feeling she is on her way but we'll get a true detection at our doctor's appointment tomorrow.
Chris is officially on paternity leave or at least that is what I am calling it. He is off from tomorrow until the end of the year to be with me and baby. So he'll join me at the doctor's appointment tomorrow which will be nice. Lori may be right in her coming in Saturday...I think time is coming soon!!
Wednesday, December 16, 2009
Giving Her Some More Time
Wednesday, December 16th, 2009 - Day 276
Called the doc today to see if he had any decisions and we decided to give her a few more days before planning an induction. I have a doc appointment on Friday, so we are going to give it until Friday and then we can go over our options then. Sorry for the TMI, but I lost my mucus plug last night - I had been losing some here and there, but last night - I lost the whole shibang. So I know we are progressing.
Here is a picture of my big ole belly - 40 weeks on Sunday and the chance of Tia arriving any day now - I wanted to get a picture before I forgot. She's definitely grown and I'm feeling the pressure hard core now. I'm just so excited, but I am happy we are giving her a chance to come on her own. It has been nice being off but just weird, almost like I called in sick from work but I'm not really sick - a guilty feeling that I'm not working when I could be. BUT it is harder to move around and I am starting to get back pain, so I know it is good to have this week to myself. Plus I've been able to get a lot of errands done, do a little Christmas shopping and get some final details completed. Guess we'll just have to be patient and wait and see what happens! Maybe she will be a true Christmas baby after all.
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
Come Out Come Out - Wherever You Are
Tuesday, December 15th, 2009 - Day 275
I think either Tia is taking after her daddy and will come late (hee hee) OR she is just too darn cozy in there and doesn't want to come out because she knows it is winter time (that means she's like me and hates the cold) Everything is ready to go - her room is perfect, the Christmas tree is up, our bags are packed, the house is clean and I'm on maternity leave. We are just missing one thing - Tia! I'm just so excited to meet her and get to see what she looks like - will she be a brown baby, will she have my nose and Chris's mouth. Will she look like our siblings or our parents. Will she hear Chris's voice and be mesmorized! I just can't wait. SO Tia, come out come out!!!!
I think either Tia is taking after her daddy and will come late (hee hee) OR she is just too darn cozy in there and doesn't want to come out because she knows it is winter time (that means she's like me and hates the cold) Everything is ready to go - her room is perfect, the Christmas tree is up, our bags are packed, the house is clean and I'm on maternity leave. We are just missing one thing - Tia! I'm just so excited to meet her and get to see what she looks like - will she be a brown baby, will she have my nose and Chris's mouth. Will she look like our siblings or our parents. Will she hear Chris's voice and be mesmorized! I just can't wait. SO Tia, come out come out!!!!
Monday, December 14, 2009
Stripping My Membranes
Monday, December 14th, 2009 - Day 274
Doesn't that just sound painful! I had heard about having your membranes stripped, but I guess I thought it was when you go in for an induction. I went to see my doctor today and no change in my cervix so he asked if he should try to help things along and of course I said yes, so he stripped my membranes. (for those that don't know what that means, you can check it out on google) Yes, it is a bit uncomfortable but it didn't hurt as bad as I had heard. I did feel VERY crampy all night and I was really hoping it would launch me into labor, but it hasn't yet. I know it isn't a guarantee, but Doc said it generally works on most women to start labor within 48 hours.
If nothing happens by Wednesday, I am supposed to call my Doc and we'll go over our options. Inducing is still an option, but now that my doctor isn't going out of town, there really isn't a big reason why we should induce. Although, he did say there really isn't a big reason why we shouldn't, since on Sunday I'll be 40 weeks and my cervix is 'ripe' enough. I do like that we are giving it a few days to see if she'll come out and play on her own. I guess we'll see how it goes!
Doesn't that just sound painful! I had heard about having your membranes stripped, but I guess I thought it was when you go in for an induction. I went to see my doctor today and no change in my cervix so he asked if he should try to help things along and of course I said yes, so he stripped my membranes. (for those that don't know what that means, you can check it out on google) Yes, it is a bit uncomfortable but it didn't hurt as bad as I had heard. I did feel VERY crampy all night and I was really hoping it would launch me into labor, but it hasn't yet. I know it isn't a guarantee, but Doc said it generally works on most women to start labor within 48 hours.
If nothing happens by Wednesday, I am supposed to call my Doc and we'll go over our options. Inducing is still an option, but now that my doctor isn't going out of town, there really isn't a big reason why we should induce. Although, he did say there really isn't a big reason why we shouldn't, since on Sunday I'll be 40 weeks and my cervix is 'ripe' enough. I do like that we are giving it a few days to see if she'll come out and play on her own. I guess we'll see how it goes!
Sunday, December 13, 2009
Christmas Tree / Finishing Touches on Tia's Room
Sunday, December 13th, 2009 - Day 273
Written by Baby Daddy:
This is my first year to put up any kind of Christmas decorations what-so-ever, much less an actual tree. I was even trying to talk my way out of it but Angie was not having any of that. Don't get me wrong, I love the holidays, but when it comes to work and the holidays, I'd rather sit in our warm house and watch the neighbors on their ladders hanging lights in the freezing cold. Not that I actually hung any outdoor lights, but I have to take it one step at a time.
I put our tree together last night and Angie had decorated it this morning. When I asked her how she got the angel on top, my mouth dropped. I have a 4' ladder in the gargage that she did not use (in her defense she probably didn't know it was there). I would have let her even get away with it if she had used one of the kitchen chairs, but she didn't use that either. Here she is, 39 weeks pregnant and ready to have our baby any day and she is balancing herself on a small ottoman! There's nothing to hang onto and it also has one of those huge cushions that your feet sink into when you try to stand on it, making it very unstable. I know because I tried to use it before. I get nervous just picturing her doing that.
We had also picked up our final piece of baby furniture yesterday. After about 30 minutes of moving furniture around, we finally got it setup just the way we wanted. I was also able to hang a couple of shelves we picked out a few weeks ago. I wanted to make sure I knew how the room was going to be setup before drilling a bunch of holes in the wall. Tia's room now looks absolutely amazing!!
Written by Baby Daddy:
This is my first year to put up any kind of Christmas decorations what-so-ever, much less an actual tree. I was even trying to talk my way out of it but Angie was not having any of that. Don't get me wrong, I love the holidays, but when it comes to work and the holidays, I'd rather sit in our warm house and watch the neighbors on their ladders hanging lights in the freezing cold. Not that I actually hung any outdoor lights, but I have to take it one step at a time.
I put our tree together last night and Angie had decorated it this morning. When I asked her how she got the angel on top, my mouth dropped. I have a 4' ladder in the gargage that she did not use (in her defense she probably didn't know it was there). I would have let her even get away with it if she had used one of the kitchen chairs, but she didn't use that either. Here she is, 39 weeks pregnant and ready to have our baby any day and she is balancing herself on a small ottoman! There's nothing to hang onto and it also has one of those huge cushions that your feet sink into when you try to stand on it, making it very unstable. I know because I tried to use it before. I get nervous just picturing her doing that.
We had also picked up our final piece of baby furniture yesterday. After about 30 minutes of moving furniture around, we finally got it setup just the way we wanted. I was also able to hang a couple of shelves we picked out a few weeks ago. I wanted to make sure I knew how the room was going to be setup before drilling a bunch of holes in the wall. Tia's room now looks absolutely amazing!!
Saturday, December 12, 2009
Getting Ready for Christmas
Saturday, December 12th, 2009 - Day 272
I had Chris take me to Hobby Lobby today to get our Christmas ornaments. Most people who know me know that I'm not a big Christmas person. I just never really got into it and I have my reasons that I'll keep to myself. BUT this year, I have to say I'm not bah humbug at all. I'm really looking forward to it and it is because we are doing our own little Christmas this year - Chris, Me & Tia. We usually have about 8 or 9 Christmas's to go to...we usually have my Grandma's, my dad's, my mom's, Chris's mom's, Chris's dad's, The Norris's, There are usually three Merli get-to-gethers (Grandpa Merli, Dennis/Donna, Jenny/Danny), Grandma Stella's, and the Harps...and of course some are combined depending on the year. This year though, we decided to forego all Christmas's since we'll have a few day to a week old in our household and who knows, she may even come right at Christmas time. But of course, anyone is welcome to come over to our house and see our best Christmas present ever...baby Tia. We do want people to let us know first, so we don't double book people and everyone can have their allotted time with Tia.
Anyway, we went to Hobby Lobby because they always have great ornaments and they have a 50% promotion going on. We got our ornaments, our stockings, stocking holders, tree skirt and angel. I'm soooo excited to put up our tree and get our house looking Christmas festive! Woo Hoo
I had Chris take me to Hobby Lobby today to get our Christmas ornaments. Most people who know me know that I'm not a big Christmas person. I just never really got into it and I have my reasons that I'll keep to myself. BUT this year, I have to say I'm not bah humbug at all. I'm really looking forward to it and it is because we are doing our own little Christmas this year - Chris, Me & Tia. We usually have about 8 or 9 Christmas's to go to...we usually have my Grandma's, my dad's, my mom's, Chris's mom's, Chris's dad's, The Norris's, There are usually three Merli get-to-gethers (Grandpa Merli, Dennis/Donna, Jenny/Danny), Grandma Stella's, and the Harps...and of course some are combined depending on the year. This year though, we decided to forego all Christmas's since we'll have a few day to a week old in our household and who knows, she may even come right at Christmas time. But of course, anyone is welcome to come over to our house and see our best Christmas present ever...baby Tia. We do want people to let us know first, so we don't double book people and everyone can have their allotted time with Tia.
Anyway, we went to Hobby Lobby because they always have great ornaments and they have a 50% promotion going on. We got our ornaments, our stockings, stocking holders, tree skirt and angel. I'm soooo excited to put up our tree and get our house looking Christmas festive! Woo Hoo
Friday, December 11, 2009
Last Day of Work
Friday, December 11th, 2009 - Day 271
It is the strangest feeling knowing that today was my last day of work. It was one of the easiest days because we also had our staff Christmas Party which means I really only had to work until about 12:30pm and then we went to eat our Xmas lunch at Oishi which was mmmm good, then back to the office for games all afternoon. I did have to plan the Christmas party and one of my fears was that I wasn't going to make it that far and then I'd leave my coworkers hanging, BUT I made it. It was a fun day too. After games, we went to Happy Hour (I had a lemonade!) Then I drove home and it felt so serile. Not know when my little bundle of joy is going to arrive, I could be twittling my thumbs next week if she doesn't arrive. I do have my doctor's appointment on Monday and then I guess I'll just continue to nest and be ready for Tia to arrive. I do know that 12 weeks is going to fly by super fast or at least that is what I've heard. I guess we'll see. I'm excited for Tia to come...it is getting sooo close!
It is the strangest feeling knowing that today was my last day of work. It was one of the easiest days because we also had our staff Christmas Party which means I really only had to work until about 12:30pm and then we went to eat our Xmas lunch at Oishi which was mmmm good, then back to the office for games all afternoon. I did have to plan the Christmas party and one of my fears was that I wasn't going to make it that far and then I'd leave my coworkers hanging, BUT I made it. It was a fun day too. After games, we went to Happy Hour (I had a lemonade!) Then I drove home and it felt so serile. Not know when my little bundle of joy is going to arrive, I could be twittling my thumbs next week if she doesn't arrive. I do have my doctor's appointment on Monday and then I guess I'll just continue to nest and be ready for Tia to arrive. I do know that 12 weeks is going to fly by super fast or at least that is what I've heard. I guess we'll see. I'm excited for Tia to come...it is getting sooo close!
Thursday, December 10, 2009
I think My Thumb is Broken or at least it Feels Like it
Thursday, December 10th, 2009 - Day 270
Seriously, I know I've talked about my swollen hands when I wake up to the point where I can barely open and close my fingers, my fingers feel like sausages and they hurt majorly bad. But the other night, in the middle of the night, I was just pulling the cover over me with my thumb and forefinger. It felt like I popped my thumb out of place and I barely even used it to pull the covers. Since then, it has hurt badly and I have to be careful when using it. The next night, my ring finger did the same thing. It is so hard to explain the feeling, but it feels like my fingers are brittle and could literally break off at any moment. I know after Tia is born, they should go back to normal, but ouch! My doc says it is both the pregnancy and signs of carpel tunnel. My mom has carpel tunnel in her right hand and has had surgeries in the past. With my heavy computer usage at work, I know my right hand has always had some signs of carpel tunnel, but right now, it is both hands that majorly hurt. In fact, it is my thumb on my left hand that feels sprained. All I know is that I have only a few things that have been downfalls of pregnancy and the major swelling and pain in my hands is the top thing! Tiredness in the first trimester was a bear and of course not being able to have a cocktail, but the hands - I can definitely do without the pain. Most women get it in their feet, but mine is in my hands. Only a week or so to go - then hopefully it will be done!
Seriously, I know I've talked about my swollen hands when I wake up to the point where I can barely open and close my fingers, my fingers feel like sausages and they hurt majorly bad. But the other night, in the middle of the night, I was just pulling the cover over me with my thumb and forefinger. It felt like I popped my thumb out of place and I barely even used it to pull the covers. Since then, it has hurt badly and I have to be careful when using it. The next night, my ring finger did the same thing. It is so hard to explain the feeling, but it feels like my fingers are brittle and could literally break off at any moment. I know after Tia is born, they should go back to normal, but ouch! My doc says it is both the pregnancy and signs of carpel tunnel. My mom has carpel tunnel in her right hand and has had surgeries in the past. With my heavy computer usage at work, I know my right hand has always had some signs of carpel tunnel, but right now, it is both hands that majorly hurt. In fact, it is my thumb on my left hand that feels sprained. All I know is that I have only a few things that have been downfalls of pregnancy and the major swelling and pain in my hands is the top thing! Tiredness in the first trimester was a bear and of course not being able to have a cocktail, but the hands - I can definitely do without the pain. Most women get it in their feet, but mine is in my hands. Only a week or so to go - then hopefully it will be done!
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
No Set Date Yet
Wednesday, December 9th, 2009 - Day 269
Went to the doc today and I was hoping he would give me an official date of induction, but he didn't. He is no longer going out of town, so no need to rush the labor if we don't have to, sooo we are taking it another few days before making a decision. I have my next appointment on Monday and then at that point, we'll go over all of our options. It is exciting to know that the final days are here! My last day of work is tomorrow and she could come any time. Sometime next week is most likely, but it is looking at later in the week as opposed to earlier as originally talked about. We are good with that but do hope she comes before Christmas! Although, Christmas is way after my due date, so most likely I'll go before, but I guess we'll see!
I'm still almost 3 cm dilated and 50% effaced. Her heartbeat is great, my blood pressure is great. I only gained one pound since last week and all is looking good. He did say that if I went some time this next week, my cervix is ready to go. Heck, maybe I won't need an induction and will go on my own. It is getting harder to sit indian style and get up, but if it is only a week or so more, I think I can handle it.
Went to the doc today and I was hoping he would give me an official date of induction, but he didn't. He is no longer going out of town, so no need to rush the labor if we don't have to, sooo we are taking it another few days before making a decision. I have my next appointment on Monday and then at that point, we'll go over all of our options. It is exciting to know that the final days are here! My last day of work is tomorrow and she could come any time. Sometime next week is most likely, but it is looking at later in the week as opposed to earlier as originally talked about. We are good with that but do hope she comes before Christmas! Although, Christmas is way after my due date, so most likely I'll go before, but I guess we'll see!
I'm still almost 3 cm dilated and 50% effaced. Her heartbeat is great, my blood pressure is great. I only gained one pound since last week and all is looking good. He did say that if I went some time this next week, my cervix is ready to go. Heck, maybe I won't need an induction and will go on my own. It is getting harder to sit indian style and get up, but if it is only a week or so more, I think I can handle it.
Tuesday, December 8, 2009
Final Days at Work
Tuesday, December 8th, 2009 - Day 268
My final day at work is set for Friday, December 11th before I go on maternity leave. I have so much to do at work too. And a ton of last minute items popped up and have really taken up a lot of my time. I had a talk with Tia and she has agreed not to come before Saturday so I could fulfill my final days at work. If I can get everything done then that is less times I'll have to do during maternity leave. I am going back to work on Monday, March 8th. It will definitely be nice to have the break to be with Tia!
My final day at work is set for Friday, December 11th before I go on maternity leave. I have so much to do at work too. And a ton of last minute items popped up and have really taken up a lot of my time. I had a talk with Tia and she has agreed not to come before Saturday so I could fulfill my final days at work. If I can get everything done then that is less times I'll have to do during maternity leave. I am going back to work on Monday, March 8th. It will definitely be nice to have the break to be with Tia!
Monday, December 7, 2009
Bags are packed
Monday December 7th, 2009 - Day 267
One of my to-dos was to pack our bags for the hospital but time and other to-dos just kept pushing it off. Finally, I was able to get them packed and now we are ready to go.
I did need a few supplies so I went to the store. One thing some people told me to get were depends. They did say it does sound funny but I'd be thankful if I was bleeding a lot. So there I was in the aisle of all the adult diapers and I had no idea which one I should get. Suddenly, an old lady in a motorized cart pulls up and starts asking me for advice on what she should get. When I told her I wasn't buying them for someone else but for myself I got a lot of looks from others. I thought the whole thing was so funny. An old lady asking me for advice.
But I think I packed the essentials and we are ready to go!
One of my to-dos was to pack our bags for the hospital but time and other to-dos just kept pushing it off. Finally, I was able to get them packed and now we are ready to go.
I did need a few supplies so I went to the store. One thing some people told me to get were depends. They did say it does sound funny but I'd be thankful if I was bleeding a lot. So there I was in the aisle of all the adult diapers and I had no idea which one I should get. Suddenly, an old lady in a motorized cart pulls up and starts asking me for advice on what she should get. When I told her I wasn't buying them for someone else but for myself I got a lot of looks from others. I thought the whole thing was so funny. An old lady asking me for advice.
But I think I packed the essentials and we are ready to go!
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Our Final Baby Shower
Sunday, December 6th, 2009 - Day 266
Written by Baby Daddy:
We finally had our last baby shower at Aunt Jenny's. This was a little bit different in that it was a couple's shower so I was there as well. I think everyone had a great time. Good food and drinks were plenty. It was nice seeing some of my friends that I hadn't seen in a while. We got some really great gifts and enough gift cards to purchase our last piece of baby furniture which we paid for today.
We even got a gag gift from our friend Lisa. As soon as I seen it, I had to try it on. Yes the apron does say "I Poop, Daddy Scoops" along with having a legend of what the different colors of poop mean.
Pay close attention to the tongs. If your over at our house when we're BBQ'ing, and you see me using these, you may want to ask me to cook your burger well done. = )
Saturday, December 5, 2009
38 Week Doc Appointment
Saturday, December 5th, 2009 - Day 265
Went to the doctor yesterday and I'm now 2 centimeters dilated (almost 3) and still 50% effaced. When the doc was feeling my tummy, he noticed I had a contraction. He tried to explain to me what they feel like, but I still can't tell. He said that when she balls up, but she always does that - hence why we call her Tia Pot Pie sometimes.
They talked me into getting the H1N1 vaccine. I have been torn on the whole H1N1 flu shot deal and was trying to get by without getting it. But after talking to doc and having him explain everything to me in medical terms and all the benefits, I agreed to get it. They had it right in the office and it didn't hurt at all. So now I have it and I'll just have to pray it doesn't hurt baby or myself in anyway, but rather helps us be immune to the H1N1 sickness.
Doc still says she'll probably arrive within a week early - yay! I can't wait to meet her! After I left, I felt crampy all day and all the girls at work thought I was experiencing early labor, but I knew it was just uncomfort from having my cervix measured and I had a little bit of a bloody show.
My next doctor's appointment is next Wednesday - which is possibly my last appointment! woo hoo
Went to the doctor yesterday and I'm now 2 centimeters dilated (almost 3) and still 50% effaced. When the doc was feeling my tummy, he noticed I had a contraction. He tried to explain to me what they feel like, but I still can't tell. He said that when she balls up, but she always does that - hence why we call her Tia Pot Pie sometimes.
They talked me into getting the H1N1 vaccine. I have been torn on the whole H1N1 flu shot deal and was trying to get by without getting it. But after talking to doc and having him explain everything to me in medical terms and all the benefits, I agreed to get it. They had it right in the office and it didn't hurt at all. So now I have it and I'll just have to pray it doesn't hurt baby or myself in anyway, but rather helps us be immune to the H1N1 sickness.
Doc still says she'll probably arrive within a week early - yay! I can't wait to meet her! After I left, I felt crampy all day and all the girls at work thought I was experiencing early labor, but I knew it was just uncomfort from having my cervix measured and I had a little bit of a bloody show.
My next doctor's appointment is next Wednesday - which is possibly my last appointment! woo hoo
Friday, December 4, 2009
Becoming Baby Wise
Friday, December 4th, 2009 - Day 264
An old friend referred a book to me called 'On Becoming Baby Wise' and I have to say that I love what it is all about. It centers around family relationships and how they have a big affect on how your baby reacts, sleeps, enters the family, etc. One thing I told Chris early in our relationship even before we got married was that one of my goals in parenting is that he and I will make each other a priority. Yes, we'll love our kids to no end but our marriage and relationship comes first and foremost. I have always believed that if a marriage bong is strong, the parenting bond will transcend into our kids nicely because with a household of love, trust and being on the same page - the kids will develop the same foundations of healthy family oriented principals. Now, of course, this is easier said than done and to be honest, it definitely takes both husband and wife wanting the same goals in a marriage and parenting style. But, of course, my wonderful husband agrees with my principles and hopes for the same. Now, I had no idea that these very principles are the foundation of the book 'On Becoming Baby Wise' and let me tell you, it is so nice to read that these principles are proven factors for happy babies. Many couples make their child the center of the family and everything that happens is all about making baby happy, but what you create is a little monster, so to speak. Because they realize early on that they have control over you - when they cry, you respond. When they are hungry - you search for every food they like until they are a happy. When they want something - the parent will do literally anything to ensure they are the happy and not crying. But, if you show the baby early on that the husband and wife bond are the control factor, the baby wants to be a part of that too and realizes that there are 3 people in the family who are equally important. Not baby cries, baby gets meaning it is baby-centered and mommy and daddy respond by doing anything they can until they are virtually exhausted.
I'm only a few chapters into the book and I already bought Becoming Baby Wise #2 Book, but I believe every word of the book and I can't wait to use them. I agree that how you raise your children from day one will affect their entire life. I'm not saying parenting is easy and you can use these principles uniformly. I'm just saying that going in a bit prepared is wise for Chris and I. We both agree that being on the same page with our parenting style is key and we plan to do our best to never let our children pin one of us against the other. But I'm excited and I know that regardless of what happens Chris and I will be the best parents we are able to be to our children!
An old friend referred a book to me called 'On Becoming Baby Wise' and I have to say that I love what it is all about. It centers around family relationships and how they have a big affect on how your baby reacts, sleeps, enters the family, etc. One thing I told Chris early in our relationship even before we got married was that one of my goals in parenting is that he and I will make each other a priority. Yes, we'll love our kids to no end but our marriage and relationship comes first and foremost. I have always believed that if a marriage bong is strong, the parenting bond will transcend into our kids nicely because with a household of love, trust and being on the same page - the kids will develop the same foundations of healthy family oriented principals. Now, of course, this is easier said than done and to be honest, it definitely takes both husband and wife wanting the same goals in a marriage and parenting style. But, of course, my wonderful husband agrees with my principles and hopes for the same. Now, I had no idea that these very principles are the foundation of the book 'On Becoming Baby Wise' and let me tell you, it is so nice to read that these principles are proven factors for happy babies. Many couples make their child the center of the family and everything that happens is all about making baby happy, but what you create is a little monster, so to speak. Because they realize early on that they have control over you - when they cry, you respond. When they are hungry - you search for every food they like until they are a happy. When they want something - the parent will do literally anything to ensure they are the happy and not crying. But, if you show the baby early on that the husband and wife bond are the control factor, the baby wants to be a part of that too and realizes that there are 3 people in the family who are equally important. Not baby cries, baby gets meaning it is baby-centered and mommy and daddy respond by doing anything they can until they are virtually exhausted.
I'm only a few chapters into the book and I already bought Becoming Baby Wise #2 Book, but I believe every word of the book and I can't wait to use them. I agree that how you raise your children from day one will affect their entire life. I'm not saying parenting is easy and you can use these principles uniformly. I'm just saying that going in a bit prepared is wise for Chris and I. We both agree that being on the same page with our parenting style is key and we plan to do our best to never let our children pin one of us against the other. But I'm excited and I know that regardless of what happens Chris and I will be the best parents we are able to be to our children!
Thursday, December 3, 2009
Two Thumbs Down
Thursday, December 3rd, 2009 - Day 263
Okay, so my hands are on a routine basis to swell while I'm sleeping. At first, they ached, but now I wake up in major pain. My thumbs are the worst and I'm not sure why. They feel like they will break if I put any pressure on them. One of the first things I do in the morning is brush my teeth and if I use my thumb to press out the toothpaste, I yelp out in pain. I haven't been able to wear my wedding rings in over a month and have been wearing a replacement band that has always been too big. It is almost too small now because my hands continue to get bigger as the days progress. I feel like I have carpal tunnel. My doctor says it is normal and most women are affected in the ankle area, but some in the hands. My ankles are just fine - my feet have grown a tiny bit - but my ankles have not swelled at all. BUT my hands on the otherhand - ouch! I've always had more sweat glands in my hands so it doesn't surprise me, but this is one ailment of pregnancy I'll be happy to rid once she's born.
Okay, so my hands are on a routine basis to swell while I'm sleeping. At first, they ached, but now I wake up in major pain. My thumbs are the worst and I'm not sure why. They feel like they will break if I put any pressure on them. One of the first things I do in the morning is brush my teeth and if I use my thumb to press out the toothpaste, I yelp out in pain. I haven't been able to wear my wedding rings in over a month and have been wearing a replacement band that has always been too big. It is almost too small now because my hands continue to get bigger as the days progress. I feel like I have carpal tunnel. My doctor says it is normal and most women are affected in the ankle area, but some in the hands. My ankles are just fine - my feet have grown a tiny bit - but my ankles have not swelled at all. BUT my hands on the otherhand - ouch! I've always had more sweat glands in my hands so it doesn't surprise me, but this is one ailment of pregnancy I'll be happy to rid once she's born.
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Bowling Maternity Leave
Wednesday, December 2nd, 2009 - Day 262
I was planning on bowling up until Tues Dec 8th but it was decided last night it was my last night of bowling before maternity leave. I think my friends at bowling are a little scared I might fall or hurt myself which probably isn't too far off. Plus our team is in first place and I'm not as reliable in getting my average or better this past month. In fact, last week I bowled terrible. Last night I bowled right around my average in the low 160s so it wasn't too bad but before late pregnancy I'd usually have a game or two much higher.
My replacement bowler is a rockstar and so since our team is in first place and next week is the deciding night on which team will take first place for 1st half - it was decided to have my rockstar replacement bowl next week for me. I'll be there to cheer them on! And I'll return in late February.
I was planning on bowling up until Tues Dec 8th but it was decided last night it was my last night of bowling before maternity leave. I think my friends at bowling are a little scared I might fall or hurt myself which probably isn't too far off. Plus our team is in first place and I'm not as reliable in getting my average or better this past month. In fact, last week I bowled terrible. Last night I bowled right around my average in the low 160s so it wasn't too bad but before late pregnancy I'd usually have a game or two much higher.
My replacement bowler is a rockstar and so since our team is in first place and next week is the deciding night on which team will take first place for 1st half - it was decided to have my rockstar replacement bowl next week for me. I'll be there to cheer them on! And I'll return in late February.
Tuesday, December 1, 2009
Doctor's Orders
Tuesday, December 1st, 2009 - Day 261
I'm not going to go into details about what 'Doctor's Orders' mean but let's just say that our Doc gave us some instructions on how we can help with our baby progressing along into labor. Chris and I have been pretty diligent into keeping up with our Doctor's Orders and I do think it is helping. I think our little girl is as excited to break out of there as we are to meet her, so anything we can do to help is what we intend to do. 11 days and counting....
I'm not going to go into details about what 'Doctor's Orders' mean but let's just say that our Doc gave us some instructions on how we can help with our baby progressing along into labor. Chris and I have been pretty diligent into keeping up with our Doctor's Orders and I do think it is helping. I think our little girl is as excited to break out of there as we are to meet her, so anything we can do to help is what we intend to do. 11 days and counting....
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